In the case of the families, the search for a sentence can represent the only way found for the confrontation of conflicts (RASP; FIELDS, 2003; FIORELLI; MANGINI, 2009). When the separation occurs, the parental pair if it separates conjugally, but not parentalmente, that is, they leave of being husband and woman, but they continue being father and mother. The parental relation appears and if it becomes indelvel from the birth or adoption of a son. What it is observed to a large extent of the cases of guard dispute, is that the parents costumam if to lose in its frustrations, you distress and ressentimentos in relation to the marriage I insult and if they forget to look at for the children and optimum interest of them. In such a way, the relation between the conjugal and parental aspects if shows as great complicador for the promotion of well-being of the children after the separation. 2.4.2 the Had Cases as Parental Alienation the concept of Parental Alienation appeared in the decade of 80 and was postulate for the American psychiatrist Richard.

the Gardner. Second it, the parental alienation would be the situation where one of the genitors, frequent the guard, would program the child in having felt to disqualify and to stain the image of the genitor not guard, making with that it hates it to the child depreciates and it in unjustified and exaggerated way, beyond if tying and establishing a pact of alliance with alienator genitor (FONSECA, 2006; BARBOSA; OATHS, 2010). The use of the allegation of Parental Alienation, for the litigant parts, as pleiteador argument of keeping of the children has increased excessively in the Poles of Family. With this, the forensic magistrates and professionals also have made use of this practical term to also lead its and for the taking of decision. Fonseca (2006) clarifies that it has a differentiation between the Parental Alienation and the Syndrome of Parental Alienation.

The question of the values appears exactly at the moment where the person starts if to ask: who am I? The question on the personal identity is a question that implies, necessarily, the question of the project of future of the person, in which also she is enclosed of choice and the adoption of some values. However, in fact it was not demonstrated that, in the commitment with values that they exceed to the proper personal interest, the adolescents if deliver more than what the adult people. What it is truth is that the altruism and the capacity for one save for the others and in certain disinterested direction they are related with the age. Soon, the presence of the family is very important in the formation of the personality of the adolescent, however in a capitalist society where all fight for the survival, in the majority of the families are not what it happens, therefore the parents leave house early and alone they retake at night. During the time that the adolescents are alone in house, it feels the lack of an authority to in general guide them in the activities and the choices of friends. Of this form, when the adolescents do not possess a formed personality well and they are not responsible, they make indesejadas friendships who can stimulate them it the use of drugs, thus causing problems pra family. Consideraes final This work was of basic importance, therefore it was possible to study more on the conflicts that permeiam the adolescents, as well as, the work of the families with the same ones. From then on to trace a profile of the adolescent in diverse contexts is familiar or in the way that lives without accompaniment of adults or a responsible family.